Each morning outside my kitchen window, I watch tiny hummingbirds flutter and feed. They exhibit amazing flexibility! These agile, three-and-a half-inch birds dart between and hover as they drink sweet nectar from my feeder. These remarkable creatures can fly backward, forward, up and down, sideways or just float in place! They ably catch insects in flight and give new meaning to “rolling with the punches”. The wind blows them “ hither and yon” and they never miss a beat. They are masters!
As the holidays approach us with the added responsibilities and expectations, I am reminded of the need to not set my affections on plans, places, ideas or people that could be changed. Change produces tension. Being flexible with a willingness to change my plans with a good attitude for the benefit of another, benefits me with new insights and perspectives regarding deference-living. It’s a win…win. Life calls us to maintain a constant state of flexibility. However, I cannot lie…change is not my favorite activity!
In the seasonal Christmas Princess Parable book, “A Royal Christmas to Remember”, the Princesses Joy, Grace, Faith, Hope and Charity have carefully planned the most dramatic and dazzling Christmas celebration ever…until a knock at the front door of the castle on Christmas Eve changes everything. Will a marauding band of outlaws ruin the princesses perfect Christmas Eve? How flexible will our princesses be with these new circumstances?
The degree of pain we experience when required to bend and yield, reveals the extent to which our affections and will are already inflexibly set! There is a natural tendency to resist change and maintain “statis quo” in our comfort and convenience. Growth comes when we step outside that space and settle in to “ride the wave” of continual adjustment. Flexibility is based on the desire and delight to do the will of God and follow His leading and an inflexible attitude reveals a persistence to do our own will.
Those little hummingbirds are my daily reminder
to check my attitude when my carefully laid plans are challenged or changed…
What is your response to an “interrupted plan”?
~Jackie Johnson - I am a former tribal missionary to the Kuna Indians on the Colombian border in Central America. Fluent in several languages, my husband and I currently pastor a Spanish-speaking church in Southern California. My passion is mentoring and equipping dedicated young women for life, marriage, motherhood, and beyond. I am the mother of two daughters and the grandmother of three Princesses and four young Knights.
