However, there is another category of individuals that are even more imperceptible…grandmothers and great-grandmothers!
Regardless of our involvement in the lives of our children and grandchildren, they reach an age of development (if we have done our job) where their need for us lessens. They now have their own friends and activities that occupy the time that was once ours! Life is a whirlwind of academics, team sports, community outreach, horses, theater and musical practices and performances, tennis coaches and tournaments, swim practices and meets, church youth group activities, bible studies, revivals, camps, etc.…!
Finally, one day… they get driver’s licenses!
Keeping pace with all of this is a tremendous challenge…for all of us! I am a grandmother of seven; my mother is a great-grandmother of 25 great-grandchildren! She lives on her own, caring for herself, alert with a memory that would put an elephant to shame! She gives new meaning to the verse in Job 12. There are very few topics that have applicability to our everyday life, that if asked, she cannot wisely put in perspective, yet she speaks of her need to keep relevant.
I have thought about the statement made by Mom and Job’s proclamation and wondered why in our 21st century culture the advanced in age feel they are being set to one side, listened to less and invisible in a large group of the younger generation.
These vital soldiers have earned their place among those who should be the most honored, respected and valued in our culture. Titus 2: 3-5 admonishes “the older” women to be reverent in the way they live and to train the younger.” There is so much to be gleaned from these seasoned veterans that have gone before us, paving the way. We will quickly step into the print they have left behind!
Our local churches defer to the younger generation. They fill the jobs in women’s ministry and teach the even younger. The young no longer turn to the older generation. They have been replaced with quick and empty answers found in the latest technology, social media and their peers.
BUT…“Is not wisdom found among THE AGED”?
While in Panama, our good friends, the Jenkins, a couple with perfect pitch and harmony put this definition below to music. I have been humming it for years and sing it out loud when my natural inclination to think “I’m all that!” overrides what Scripture says should be the godly point of view!
“Reverence is acknowledging that God is using in my life, people and events to produce the character of Christ in me”. It is wisely looking at life’s situations (all of them!) from God’s point of view, not my own,
THEN… the warning:
So be wise my son (daughter), heed my instruction (instantly placing myself in harmony with Him and His will and directives), leave that road that leads to destruction, hallow my name (don’t walk in shame…Proverbs 23: 17,18)